Grooming by pedophiles

meep meep · Sep 11, 2014

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You're a thief—a con artist. You recently met an elderly widow with a good–sized bank account fueled by pension and dividend checks. In sharp contrast, your own financial engine is running on fumes. You decide to take her money.

So you befriend the lady. You run small errands for her. You buy her gifts. You listen to her stories and you comfort her when she feels lonely. You put your arm around her and tell her you understand her problems. You spend time with her each day. You tell her she's special. You gain her trust. Her natural suspicion disappears.

Only then does the conversation shift to money. You tell her about a tremendous investment opportunity. You offer her a chance to share in this special event. If she's curious, you play on that curiosity. You answer her questions and downplay her fears.

But what if you're a child molester—a predator? What if the object of your desire isn't the widow's bank account, but her six–year–old grandson? What steps will you take to get what you want?

Not much will change. A predator will identify and engage his victim. He'll gain the child's trust, break down his defenses, and manipulate him into performing or permitting the desired sex act. If necessary, the predator will gain access to the child by employing the same techniques with the child's parent or adult caretaker.

The process is called grooming. It increases the predator's access to his victim and decreases the likelihood of discovery.

meep meep · Sep 11, 2014

The forging of an emotional bond through grooming leads to physical contact. Predators use the grooming process to break down a child's defenses and increase the child's acceptance of touch. The first physical contact between predator and victim is often nonsexual touching designed to identify limits: an "accidental" touch, an arm around the shoulder, a brushing of hair. Nonsexual touching desensitizes the child. It breaks down inhibitions and leads to more overt sexual touching—the predator's ultimate goal.

Beware touchy- feely adults who aren't touchy feely with adults

meep meep · Sep 11, 2014

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sottnet/2013/12/08/predators-among-us-interview-with-dr-anna-salter
This is a long but interesting interview 123 minutes. She writes fiction too.

meep meep · Sep 11, 2014

Child molesters tend to talk about or treat children as though they are adults. They might refer to a child as they would refer to an adult friend or lover. [8]

http://m.wikihow.com/Identify-a-Pedophile
So when your kid comes home and says the coach is cool because he treats me like a grown up, go to the next practice.

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