Links below to resources which victims of rape and sexual assault may find useful. UK Rape Crisis 0808 802 9999 NHS: Help after rape and sexual assault Rights of Women (free confidential legal advice) 020 7251 6577 Survivors UK (male victims of rape and sexual assault) 0845 122 1201 Find your nearest Sexual Assault Referral Centre - and what to expect when you go there. Victim Support 0845 3030900 Childline (for children) 0845 1111 NSPCC (for adults concerned about the welfare of children) (how-to Anonymous) 0808 800 5000 USA RAINN - Crisis Center Search Safe Horizon Rape Center - UCLA Medical Treatment Center, Santa Monica The Victim Center Find your District Attorney (work in progress - please add further useful resources below and we'll edit them into this OP).
Here is a few for US: RAINN - Crisis Center Search Safe Horizon Rape Center - UCLA Medical Treatment Center, Santa Monica The Victim Center
http://answers.usa.gov/system/selfs...TITION_ID=1&CMD=VIEW_ARTICLE&ARTICLE_ID=11988 Your local district attorney's office can be found by following the link to your state at the above URL. One way to stop rapists is by having them prosecuted for violating the laws of our land.
Also: Don't forget that getting help if you are a victim helps in a big way. Yes. I'm back off hiatus.
I agree if the victim is fully supported and informed about the process that's involved. I would suggest finding a rape crisis counsellor to help the victim decide what they would like to do. A counsellor will be able to help guide them to resources.
She's refusing that route and the only support is me, I've gone through some police friends already but they say there's been a lot of complaints against him, yet he's still allowed to drive around in his ambulance. Other than support her does anyone know another route I can use to stop him? His colleague joked with me once that he is the Jimmy Saville of the service and I'm now seeing why.
There is only one way. Do it legally. If she doesn't want to report it it's understandable, but the only thing that will stop him is the law.
That's I'm looking for but now I've hit a brick wall, I was hopeful someone might know of another legal route I can go? If there's not a way then so be it.
Does anyone have thoughts about these organization? They all specialize in male victims. I want to avoid referring anyone to the Narconon version of a nonprofit for male rape survivors. http://www.malesurvivor.org/ http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/male.asp (Chicago, Il, USA) http://survivor.org.nz/ (New Zealand) https://1in6.org/men/get-help/online-support-center/ (California, USA)
http://www.malesurvivor.org/ This one checks out. This group has a Facebook page with classes and retreats schedules. Non profit according to tax filings.
RVA is a good organization, good programs, well organized. http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/PDF/MythsFactsMaleSurvivors.pdf http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/male.asp CHICAGO RAPE CRISIS HOTLINE* 1-888-293-2080 RAINN HOTLINE** 1-800-656-HOPE *Rape Victim Advocates serves on the Joint Management Team of The Chicago Rape Crisis Hotline, a program of the YWCA of Metropolitan Chicago-Loop Women's Services, along with the YWCA of Chicago-Harris Women's Services, Community Counseling Centers of Chicago's Quetzal Center, Pillars Community Services' Midway Sexual Assault Victim Services, and Mujeres Latinas en Accion." ** This is a national hotline available 24/7 that will connect a caller to the nearest rape crisis hotline or rape crisis center all over the US.
https://1in6.org/men/get-help/online-support-center/ (California, USA) This one is interesting. Its a 501C working on male sexual assault. It's an organization for people who were victimized as boys. It is tied to this initiative And this initiative Its tied to the work of Jim Hopper, Ph.D Looks good.
Ayuda a las victimas de abuso sexual en España: En el caso de que conozcas algún caso de Abuso Sexual, puedes: I. Denunciar Acude al Grupo de Menores de la Policía Nacional (GRUME). Plza de las Regiones s/n Madrid. 91 507 94 47 II. Acudir a la Asociación de Ayuda a Víctimas de Agresiones Sexuales Tfno: 91 574 01 10 a) Acudir a interponer denuncia.- Lo idóneo será acudir a la Comisaría de Policía Nacional o comandancia de la Guardia Civil más cercana o en Madrid, al Servicio de Atención a la Mujer (SAM) de la Policía Nacional, sin ducharse ni cambiarse la ropa que se llevase puesta en el momento de la agresión. En el SAM se atienden casos de toda la Comunidad Autónoma, su teléfono es el 913223555 y se encuentran en la calle Dr. Federico Rubio y Galí nº 55 de Madrid. Si la víctima no se encentra en Madrid capital, también puede acudir al Equipo de Mujer y Menor (EMUME) de la Guardia Civil que se encuentra sito Tres Cantos en la calle Sector Escultores nº 10, siendo su número de teléfono el 918073900. También se puede llamar al 112 para toda emergencia de la ciudadanía. Centros para menores víctimas de abusos Siendo menor, una víctima de abusos sexuales puede acudir al teléfono del menor en su comunidad autónoma, que depende en general de la Consejería de Bienestar Social. También hay asociaciones sin ánimo de lucro que atienden a las víctimas y ofrecen asesoramiento jurídico. Realizan actividades como talleres y charlas a padres, educadores y niños, además de poner a su disposición psicólogos y grupos de ayuda. El experto en abusos sexuales Joan Montané recimienda una en concreto cuando la víctima que denuncia un abuso es menor. Se trata de ASPASI, creada en Madrid en 2007. Aunque pueden acudir a cualquiera de las existentes. ASPASI, Asociación para la Sanación y la Prevención del Abuso Sexual Infantil C/ San Raimundo, 27 1º - 28039 Madrid - Metro Alvarado Tfno. 91 311 23 76. Correo electrónico: aspasi07@hotmail.com ASPASI también ofrece la posibilidad de contactar con un abogado en horario de 10.00 a 14.00 y de 17.00 a 20.00 en las siguientes direcciones: Juan Carlos Sánchez Martín Tfno. 91 593 04 24 / 91 593 07 83 juancsanchez@bjsabogados.com María José Martín Caruana Tfno. 91 561 88 02 mariajosemartin2@telefonica.net Centros para adultos que sufrieron abusos en la infancia En el caso de los adultos, sólo pueden acudir a asociaciones privadas. Pueden denunciar, porque la cuenta atrás para que prescriban los delitos de abusos a menores no empieza hasta que la víctima cumpla los 18 años, pero no existen organismos públicos para que les asesoren o reciban atención psicológica. Aquí hay un listado de asociaciones A.S.I. (Abuso sexual infantil) en España: En Valencia: ACASI, Asociación Contra el Abuso Sexual Infantil C/ Camí Reial 121, Bajo 46900 - Torrente (Valencia) Tfno. 96 108 91 98 Tfno. móvil:651 55 95 30 E-mail: asociacion@acasi.org En Bilbao: AVASI, Asociación de Ayuda a las Víctimas de Abusos Sexuales en la Infancia C/ Santa Clara 2, Entreplanta C 48004 - Bilbao Tfno. 622 218 016 E-mail: asociacion@avasibilbao.org En San Sebastián: GASJE, Asociación de Guipúzcoa de personas que han sufrido abusos sexuales Locales CRAJ. Paseo de Anoeta, 28 (Edificio del CRAJ) Tfno. 943 472 617 E-mail: gasje_asoziazioa@yahoo.es / gasje@gasje.org En Madrid: ASPASI, Asociación para la Sanación y la Prevención del Abuso Sexual Infantil C/ San Raimundo 27 1º 28039 - Madrid Tfno. 91 311 23 76 - 615 88 33 32 E-mail: aspasi7@hotmail.com En Barcelona: Fundación Vicki Bernadet (anteriormente FADA) C/ Fontanella 20, 2º D 08010 - Barcelona Tfno. 93 318 97 69 - Fax. 93 301 54 44 E-mail: info@fberdadet.org Proyecto abu-S.O.S. Tfno. 652 443 713 (Joan Montané) Tfno. 652 793 480 (Charo Segura) E-mail: info@abu-sos-sexuales-infantiles.com AIPAI ONG Rambla Cataluña 18, 6º 08007 - Barcelona Tfno. 93 492 99 60 / 93 492 99 61 / 626 111 879
Ayuda a las victimas de abuso sexual en Argentina: Equipo Móvil de Intervención en Urgencias con Víctimas de Delitos Sexuales LLAMANOS AL: 4958-4291 - 4981-6882 - 4958-3982 Denuncie en la comisaría más cercana cualquier ataque sexual. Cuenta con la presencia del Equipo Móvil para asistirla. ¿Quién integra este Equipo? Profesionales licenciadas en Psicología y en Trabajo Social, que trabajan en forma conjunta con personal de Policía Federal Argentina. Dependen en forma directa del Programa Las Víctimas Contra Las Violencias y articulan con el "Centro de Atención a Víctimas de Violencia Sexual" de la Policía Federal Argentina (C.A.V.V.S.) sito en el Pasaje Angel Peluffo 3981 del barrio de Almagro de la Ciudad Autónoma de Buenos Aires. El Equipo Móvil interviene inmediatamente ante el llamado de la comisaría a la cual recurrió la víctima de violación y/o abuso sexual.
Ayuda a las victimas de abuso sexual en Mexico: Denuncia en alguna agencia especializada en delitos sexuales. En caso de ser menor de edad, se requiere la compañía de un adulto; dependiendo de la gravedad del caso se puede o no hacer una denuncia vía telefónica. Algunas de las agencias son:GJDF. FISCALÍA CENTRAL DE INVESTIGACIÓN PARA MENORES Gral. Gabriel Hernández No. 56, Piso 2, Col Doctores. CP. 06720, México, D. F. Teléfono: 53 46 86 94 Fax: 53 46 85 74AGENCIA No. 58 ESPECIALIZADA EN ASUNTOS DEL MENOR.Av. México y Av. Toluca, Col. Progreso San Ángel, Del. Álvaro Obregón, C. P. 01080, México, D. F. Teléfono: 52 00 95 52AGENCIA No. 59 ESPECIALIZADA EN ASUNTOS DEL MENOR. DELEGACIÓN CUAUHTÉMOC. Dr. Liceaga No. 93, Col. Doctores, Del. Cuauhtémoc, México, D. F. Teléfono: 52 42 63 61AGENCIA No. 69 ESPECIALIZADA EN ASUNTOS DEL MENOR. Calz. Ermita Iztapalapa s/n, Col Lomas De Zaragoza, Del. Iztapalapa, México, D. F. Teléfono: 53 45 56 22 y 53 45 56 10.AGENCIA No. 46 ESPECIALIZADA EN DELITOS SEXUALES. DELEGACIÓN MIGUEL HIDALGO. Privada Gral. Sóstenes Rocha s/n y Vicente Eguía, Col. Tacubaya, Del. Miguel Hidalgo, C. P. 06080 México, D. F. Teléfono: 51 30 82 40AGENCIA No. 47 ESPECIALIZADA EN DELITOS SEXUALES DELEGACIÓN COYOACAN Tecualiapan s/n y Zompantitla, Col. Romero de Terreros, Del. Coyoacán, C. P. 04310, México, D. F. Teléfono: 52 00 93 84 y 52 00 93 72AGENCIA No. 48 ESPECIALIZADA EN DELITOS SEXUALES DELEGACIÓN VENUSTIANO CARRANZA. Fray Servando Teresa De Mier s/n Esq. Fco. Del Paso y Troncoso, Col. Jardín Balbuena, Del. Venustiano Carranza, C. P. 15900, México, D. F. Teléfono: 51 33 77 81; 51 33 77 86 y 52 00 91 80.AGENCIA No. 49 ESPECIALIZADA EN DELITOS SEXUALES DELEGACIÓN GUSTAVO A. MADERO. Vicente Villada s/n ESQ. Fco. Moreno, Col Gustavo A. Madero, C. P. 07059, México, D. F. Teléfono: 53 46 80 93; 53 46 80 37 y 52 00 91 73. Si eres mujer:Fiscalía Especial para los Delitos de Violencia contra las Mujeres y Trata de Personas (FEVIMTRA) de la Procuraduría General de la República.Río Elba No. 17, Col. Cuauhtémoc, Del. Cuauhtémoc, C.P. 06500, México, D.F. Teléfono: 018000085400 Sitio web: www.pgr.gob.mx/fevimtra/5. Apoyo integralDespués de la demanda o denuncia, es importante continuar con una red de apoyo y soporte. Algunas son:Centro de Atención a Víctimas de Delitos Sexuales (C.T.A.) Teléfonos: 5345-5224, 5345-5225, 5345-5070, 5345-5237 Horario de Atención: de 9 a 19hrs., los 365 días del año.Asociación para el Desarrollo Integral de Personas Violadas (ADIVAC)Pitágoras No.842, Col. Narvarte, Del. Benito Juárez., C.P. 03020, México, D.F. Línea de crisis/celular 59 04 70 65 Lunes a Viernes de 10:00 a 20:00 horas http://www.laneta.apc.org/adivac/
Hi, I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this, but I'm new to this website and not really sure where else to put it. Last year, on my birthday, I went to the observatory on campus to watch the full moon. I went with two friends. One of my friends soon left, as she thought we were ignoring her. So me and my other male friend were just hanging out, when two guys joined us in the room we were hanging out in. We talked a bit, and all started playing video games. I had a cup of iced tea by my foot, very close to me. The guy sitting next to me said, "Ugh, what is wrong with this controller?" And adjusted the plug with one hand, but not very subtly dropped something in my drink with the other. We looked right at each other, and he knew I saw him. My mind was reeling, and I just wanted to get out as fast as possible. I was still in total disbelief. Soon, I was able to get my male friend to walk me home, and I got back safely. Now, a year later, I finally told someone trustworthy what happened, and it wasn't until I talked about it that I realized I knew what his major was. I checked the list of male students who were freshmen last year, and I was able to track down his Facebook account. For two days now, I've just been trying to figure out what to do with this information. I doubt the legal system could help me because even though the statute of limitations is not over for him, I have no proof aside from the fact that I witnessed what he did. The extent of my payback thus far was adding him on Facebook, just so he knows that I know who he is. Even if just scaring the shit out of him is all I get out of this, it's better than nothing. It just absolutely kills me thinking he has probably done this since, and maybe even succeeded, and there's nothing I can do legally to stop it now. My biggest wish is that he never attempts something like that ever again. I'm not creative in terms of revenge, but you are. So that's why I'm here. I have no skill with programming and I don't want him to know this is happening because of me specifically, so direct revenge would not be best. So here I am. If some of you are willing to help me, I can give you his name, age, college, major, facebook account, and even pictures of him. But I won't do that until I'm sure you can help. Thank you so much for reading, and have a good day.
Usually I suggest reporting sex crimes to the authorities but campus /student court is hopeless. I'd post on the Facebook pages of your friends , sorority. Avoid posting on campus as you will fall under campus court for bullying another student. Its worth it to file a report with the real police if you can convince them to take it. Nothing happens with your report but it's there when one of his victims reports her case to the police. Avoid reporting to campus student court. It will cause problems for you and not solve anything. Don't stay silent, his list of victims will increase. Printing up flyers with his picture describing what he did may be illegal. I don't think so but who knows. Talk to your friends about what happened and ask for their help getting the truth out there. I'm serious about this, it just happened to friend of mine last week. Fortunately it was in a public park, someone who knew her called her boyfriend and he came and got her John Krakauer wrote a book " Missoula" about campus rape and the universities response or lack there of. You're not alone and you now have a burden- help others.
Sounds quite unfair that the one reporting is going to get into trouble with the uni or even local police and no the raper...
Yeah, that's actually exactly what I'm worried about. Filing a report isn't a horrible idea, I was just hoping to distance myself from this while still getting a little payback. Even a shit-ton of emails from a bunch of different people all warning him not to spike people's drinks would be ideal. You guys wouldn't even have to do any research, I can literally give you his email.
