It has been my experience that this was true of everything I have ever come across. Relationships, high school, the United States, all inventions, all of it, can be found at different times to have has equal parts of anything anyone could say about it. Yes people seem to talk about things as if that thing over there is bad and me over here and all the things I do, is all good. Oh them over their, they are so brainwashed, but us over here? Oh gosh no, we are free thinkers and slaves to no one and no thing. These are bizarre lopsided unrealistic and convenient points of view IMO.